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Friday, April 27, 2012

Necklace Contest, come on over if you dare!





 The first book in the new SFR Elatia line, Forever Across the Stars, has been unleashed. This is a woman who knows how to write and get all your juices flowing. Her books are pure temptation, fiery. 

Feather Ravoko is a kick-ass female warrior who has defeated more frost beasts than any femwar before her. And she's highly unique. How? Well, what if you had been taught since you were very small to never show emotion or allow emotion to affect you in any way? Then suddenly you're thrust into a new life. A startling life that forces sensations, thoughts, and emotions into your mind and heart you've never encountered before.

She's a woman who was never permitted to love or have sex. She's also a woman who finds herself in a love triangle when she's never been claimed.

Could you handle such changes? 

I invite you to find out more about Feather and her journey into not only love and temptation, but also a spectacular new life. Come on over to my blog post today at a Daily Dose of Decadence and find out how you could to win a cool pendant necklace.
Faith
F.L. Bicknell www.FaithBicknell.com A.K.A. Molly Diamond & Azura Ice
*Better to write for yourself & have no public than to write for the public & have no self.~Cyril Connolly*

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Loss, Love, Life

You don't think about who you're mad at or the words that were spoken between you during the argument. A human is focused on the anger they feel and how they hurt. Anger is an emotion that overrides any sensibility that you as a person has, even the logic you know you're centered with normally. Words can hurt more than you realize. In the heat of the moment we throw it out there about hating them, never wanting to see them again. I'm sure at some point the blow up between you and a loved one went as far as one of you speaking those dreaded words, "you're dead to me". Anger can do alot of things for an emotion, none of which are good. There's no real way of biting our tongues before the words have already slipped out of our mouths or typed out by our hands. Once it's said and done, all we have left is regret once we've calmed down and seen that it shouldn't have ever gone so far.

I'm as guilty as anyone else of saying those words, and recently (two days ago) had to attend the funeral of my brother in law Wesley Kemph. He was one of a kind, free spirited, but stubborn as a mule when he thought he was right about a decision he made. He was the type to make you laugh no matter how he had to accomplish it. He was 18 years old and will never know what kind of life he could have because now it'll be lived in Heaven or wherever his spirit went.

I should have messaged him and said I was sorry long before now. I should have begged and pleaded with him to forgive me and to forgive his brother for acting so harshly over something so little. Death comes and takes us before we're ready. But only God Knows Why.

But you receive that phone call and BAM just like that every reason you were angry for is gone. You think it's a sick morbid joke another friend is playing on you just to get the two of you back talking again. Until you leave to go to see for yourself that it really is permanent. That person is no longer there to call and say "I'm sorry". The person can't say back that you're forgiven, or that it's no big deal anymore. All you can do is look upward and pray that they hear your cries.

Never go  to bed angry. Never allow your anger to come inbetween you and someone you love. Always make sure they know that you love them. Saying I love you to many times is way better than never saying it. Always back your words with actions. Just saying the words is never enough, you have to show it too. But overall, remember there could always not be a tomorrow to amend damage done today.

R.I.P Wesley Scott Kemph, we love you and miss you already. Too soon were you gone from this world.

Monday, January 16, 2012

Lakisha Spletzer's Interview with Me

First and foremost I want to say thank you for the time you've taken to do this interview! I definitely enjoyed doing it. I hope you enjoyed your free read. J
Please tell us about yourself?
I am a stay a home mom. My daughter who is 9 lives with me and my husband. I am an author when there's time outside of the husband and daughter. I go to college online at IADT Tampa currently for my Associates Degree in Web Design and Development. I am a newly hired cover artist and editor for Keith Publications. Although new at both, I'm trying to do the best I can. Learning is the hard part.
Tell us your latest news?
My latest news? Where do I begin? Lol Well, after 4 short stories being self published, I've decided to take my novellas back to the publishers. One of which is newly written called Harmony's Prophesy. It's about the apocalypse and two receptors that have dreams of what's going to happen before it happens. I've done the cover art for it myself.
When and why did you begin writing?
I started writing when I was a teenager, but couldn't concentrate back then, got frustrated and threw it in the garbage, lol. But when I first started back was about 10 years ago. I was published through a publisher who had the worst reputation in the business. But found my way with a better one through Sugar and Spice Press. One of my longest time friends, Stacey Thompson Geer started a publishing company and helped to put me on the map so to speak. The woman had way more faith in me than I've ever had in myself. I had other friends help me along the way in my journey as an author. Faith Bicknell Brown, Trinity Blacio, Marci Baun. Although I can say Marci was more ready to string me up than anything. I wasn’t published through her, but I started out as an acquisitions editor (submissions) for her. I just took on way too much when I tried being an editor. That's a tough job and I'll leave it at that.
When did you first consider yourself a writer?
I considered it so when I got my first book published. I'll admit, I had no idea what I was up against in the publishing world. Passive tense, telling, etc. It can be and is harder on the Indie author than with a publisher.
How can we find you?

1) Tell me a little about your book.
Well, there's several to talk about, lol. Desires and Wanting are trucking short stories. Falling In, I have to say is my favorite out of all my short stories. It's about a woman who falls in love with her best friend. He's having trouble finding the right woman. The leading lady is also new at discovering her path of faith, but that isn't the main part of the storyline. Her professing her love and trying to show the lead man how much she loves him is the main.
It's very clean on the sex, sorry ladies!. Falling In was an experiment around the sexual thing. I wanted something to focus on the people and how to build a relationship, not about getting each other in the sack.
The Curse is my first werewolf tale. It does have a sequel coming at some point. The muse has refused to co-operate on that, lol. My latest going to a publisher is Harmony's Prophesy. It is about the end of the world. Only for the world itself there is no Happily Ever After. But the receptors do get together and the female does get pregnant. So, for the couple it is HEA, but not for the world.

2) What gave you the idea for this particular story?
For Desires and Wanting, again experiments based around the trucking industry. I used to be an over the road truck driver. I wanted to see what kind of stories could be written around them. Of course I found out that the characters in those two didn't lack for imagination or experimenting. Falling In was actually based around when my husband and I become friends, then lovers. Although the story is altered for imagination purposes, the whole theme of the relationship and him inspired me.
The Curse was a Christmas themed book through the publisher I was with at the time and thought it would be cool to try at least one werewolf/shifter kind of book. I do prefer vampires most of all, lol, but that's a whole new topic, lol.

3) Are you a full-time writer or part-time, and how do you organize your writing time?
I am a full time author when I have time to write. I am an editor and cover artist too. I try to balance my time. The rest of the time I'm a mom and wife.

4) What is the toughest part about being a writer and how do you get past it?
The toughest part for me? Well, to be totally honest here, I have to say that in being an editor, my ability to apply the knowledge in my own writing is a big problem. Just because you know a few of the rules, doesn't always mean that you apply them in full when you write. Smacking your hands at every typo, can be a bit crazy at times or trying to make sure you do incorporate what you're really supposed to have. Sometimes I feel like I have to ask a certain friend to grab her virtual newspaper and whack me one good time.
The editing process in general after you've written the book(s), is tedious and hard work. You have to draw from knowledge you have.

5) Any tips for new writers hoping to write in the genre of your book?
I can't stress enough to edit, edit, and more edit. Get with critique groups. Download the different style manuals available to you. Put the work away after each edit for a few days and come back to it. Ask questions to critique partners or even editors that will take the time to answer you honestly. Search on the internet for information on writing styles, comma usage, colon and semi colon usage. Anything that will improve your manuscript before it is submitted will do wonders for your relationship with your new editor once it has been accepted and contracted. One thing to add in here, when you are ready for the edits on your work read through it out loud. Read it to a friend, family member, your husband/wife, anyone that will listen to you. You'd be amazed at how well you'll catch mistakes when reading it outloud.

Editors don't mind answering questions. But, they don't have time to stop, do the searching for you and hold your hand. It takes way too much time away from work they could be doing on your manuscript or another author's they are working with. Editors can be your friends, good friends at that. The relationship you develop with your publisher or editor can hurt you or help you.  I could go on all day about the editor/author relationships, but there's not enough room here, lol. If you're going to self publish. My main advice is to make sure you have the guts to really put yourself out there. Without the back up of a publisher, or even the right publisher, you're vulnerable to no exposure. You have to do what it takes to give the right exposure to your book. Which means heavier and more professional editing services. If you think your work is good enough without editing at all, you're lucky you're that good, or you're setting yourself up for some major heartbreak. It only takes one person talking to someone else about how bad your book was to kill you in this business. 

6) What book are you reading now? What do you like, or not, about it?
I'm currently reading Ruby, The White King, and Marilyn Monroe by F.L. Bicknell.
So far I like it. I like the visions and how real it is to the character. This is my first Urban Fantasy so I haven't found anything bad about it. I know the author and she's a good story teller too.
7) What are your current projects?
Current projects are cover art for my books, editing through them again, and starting the editing process of Harmony's Prophesy. I'm looking to add in my editor/critique partner as my co-writer so we can lengthen the word count. I know she'll find places that I could have added more information or left some out.
If you had to do it all over again, would you change anything in your latest book?
Maybe added Lori in sooner as a co-writer, lol.
Is there anything you find particularly challenging in your writing?
Keeping my research, if there was any, as factual as possible so it makes the scene I'm working on more likely to happen.
Do you ever have problems with writers block?  If so how do you get through it?
I know some people who say writer's block doesn't exist. And they'll tell you until they're blue in the face that they're right. Pish Tosh! Reality has a way of seeping in and taking dominance over our muses. Whether we like it or not, whether we want it happening or not, it doesn't matter. There's always going to be something that is going to happen to interrupt your train of thought. Work, school, etc. If you have to, save your work, close it out and leave it alone for awhile. Try searching through topics on the internet, or even at the library that has to do with what you're writing about. Give it a little while to sink in by doing other things. The muse does have a tendency to wander and does get worn out. Writer's Block does exist. You never want to force the story because honestly, if you force your story, it's going to come across forced to your readers and give off the wrong impression.

What do you do when you’re not writing/editing or thinking about writing/editing?
Okay, bad question to pick being an editor, lol. When am I not writing or editing or even thinking about editing?  I like to talk to people on Facebook. I love playing the games on FB. I love to read. Now being an editor has a downfall, as much as I love to read, my eye has gotten where I can't enjoy much anymore without seeing things that got missed, lol. You can be the best in the world and still miss things, lol. I love to watch movies, spend time with my husband and my daughter. It makes me feel good when she's got writing questions since she's learning how to write creatively. She's 9, and man they teach these kids to write with passive voice, telling and all the things creative writing in fiction tells you to leave out. I do attend college, so there's schoolwork to do. As of right now and this interview, I'm currently in College Algebra. We can say YUCK, lol.
What was the hardest part of writing your book?
Research, research, and heaven only knows more research. Hours and hours of research, lol.
Did you learn anything from writing your book and what was it?
Actually, I learned more about the world's geographic stability that I didn't know.
Do you have any advice for other writers?
Get, if you don't have it a critique partner. Read out loud to whoever will listen. Edit until you're sick of your own manuscript, put it away and then edit some more; especially if you plan on self publishing. Your manuscript can never be too clean. One thing to remember, any editor out there, is never there to be your friend. As a matter of fact, it's their job to critic your manuscript and find everything in the world wrong with it. You have to be tough, take yourself outside of the box. Think outside of the box. Critique yourself like you're a total stranger not there to be a fan. The harder you can be on yourself, really it is the better. I've learned this the hard way. I've had my feelings hurt more times since I started writing than I've had in my entire life. Take rejections with a grain of salt. Take bad reviews as learning lessons. Never burn your bridges. Reviewers are there to let readers know what they liked and didn't like. They're there to give their opinions of your work. That's all they do, give opinions. Not many reviewers are going to just give you a good review, you have to earn it. You earn it by learning.
Do you have anything specific that you want to say to your readers?
THANK  YOU!!! Those are the two most important words in my vocabulary to you. Without you, I would be nothing more than a woman with a lot of imagination saved on my hard drive. I can never fully thank you enough or be able to tell you how much I appreciate you. You're all my heart and soul and give me the inspiration I need to keep writing. Don't be afraid to friend me on FB or like me on my author's page. I do welcome your comments, good or bad. I want to get to know you. I welcome ideas of things you'd like to see a story about. I can't always promise that I'll be able to give you stories like you want, but I can say that I will try. Hugs to you all!


Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Creativity or Common Sense?

Creativity or Common Sense?

Okay, so I'm bored without being able to get on the internet and attend my live chat for school. I'm bored without my phone. So, since minds have a tendency to wander, I'm going to take you with me. Lol.

Now, back in the beginning of the world, there was Adam and Eve, right? Or perhaps whatever your religion, maybe they had different names. No, we're not headed for a religious thing here. But it takes common sense for people to want to stay dry and warm. It also takes common sense for people to have their own piece of heaven. So, here's the thing. It may take common sense to accomplish these things as they're viewed as sensible. But here's another take on it. Is it just common sense or creativity involved? I say both.

Common sense is what I define as the mind's basic way of surviving. Creativity is how the mind comes up with the ideas of turning common sense into reality. Seems simple enough, right? Just think of what kind of world we would live in, if we existed at all without some kind of creativity to add to the common sense. Some people would say that common sense will and has ruled over the creativeness of the mind for a long time. I really don't think it has, not in most aspects.

Building homes, making heat, air conditioning, things to eat on and with, clothes to wear, furniture to sit on, and so on are just some of the examples I can think of although there are so many more. It may take common sense to come up with the idea like, "hey I need somewhere to sleep, food to eat and something to sit or lay on." But where the creative comes in is here. Without the creative, how would we accomplish basic survival skills or needs? I'd love to hear your ideas! 

Free Promo Opportunity for Indie Authors!

I've already filled out the form, so I'll be keeping you all updated as to when I'll be appearning, but for anyone
interested in this, here's the information below.

From: Lakisha Spletzer <author@kishazworld.com>
Date: Wed, Jan 11, 2012 at 5:26 PM
Subject: Re: promo op
To: Angel <bornangel4u@gmail.com>



Dear Angel,
 
I wanted to offer you a chance to do a little bit of promotion that is easy and takes very little effort and time on your part. Here are the details:
 
Time: Jan 15 (12 am) - Jan 22 (11:00 pm)
Location: Online, blogs/websites, Amazon/Smashwords/Pubit etc
 
Event: 99cents Indie Hoopla
 
Participants needed: 35
Slots available: 31
 
Requirements:
  1. You must have a blog, website, tumblr, etc where you can put up the post/webpage that advertises this event.
  2. You must set the list price for your novel to 99 cents from Jan 15 -22. If you have multiple novels, you are required to make at least one 99 cents for that week.
  3. Tell others about it via Facebook, Twitter, and/or any other social media networks you feel comfortable promoting in
  4. You must provide buy links to your ebooks if you sell them places other than Amazon.
  5. Must provide links to your website/blog/facebook page etc.
  6. After the event has finished, fill out a brief survey to help me make improvements for future events
  7. Must display the Indie Hoopla badge for the duration of the promotion
How the promotion will work:
  1. All authors participating will be featured on the Indie Author How-to Blog (http://indieauthor-howto.blogspot.com).
  2. Each day, 5 authors will be showcased on the Indie Author site for that day (there will be 7 groups of five total)
  3. There will be one main post on the Indie Author site that lists all the authors to make it easy for visitors to find your links
  4. On the day that your group is to be showcased, make sure that post/page is at the top of your entries (make it a sticky or featured post)
Benefits:
  1. EXPOSURE - this is the biggest benefit. It will give readers a chance to find you and learn more about you and your work.
  2. Helps build your online presence. I know many are overwhelmed by the amount of internet/online opportunities are available. This is a good stepping stone.
  3. Networking. It never hurts to know others who practice the same craft as you.
If you are interested in this promotion, please go to the FORM and fill it out. This is a first come, first serve basis. Registration for this event closes January 12. Once you are confirmed, you will receive and email from me with all the necessary instructions on what to do and when to post for this event.
 
Sincerely,
Lakisha Spletzer

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

I'm appalled

I'm a mother of a 17 year old boy and 9 year old daughter. My sister sent me a text message this morning.
I about fell out in the damn floor. We all know that sex ed has its good and bad points. You tell a teen about how sex works, they get curious or they ignore it. Preferably they ignore it, but teens are teens and think they know it all. But what really irked me this morning is a children's book. I'm all for teaching a child that, 'boys have penises and girls have vaginas.' Children are curious about their bodies, it's natural.

But, I hardly think drawing a line from dad's "tube" to mom's "tummy" and stating that dad's "tube" goes into mom's hole is appropriate for young children. They don't need to know that much! I'm sure the author had good intentions when writing this. The illustrations are 'cute'. All children wonder where babies come from. But this upset me as much as it upset my sister. I can't blame her one bit for returning it. She initially bought it thinking it would be cute with the dinosaur egg and all that. My niece is 4. To quote my sister, "My friend just proofread a seemingly harmless book I picked up for kk at the library. I had no idea. This like child karma sutra" KK is my niece's nickname and at first I thought maybe she might be overreacting a little. You know being the good typical mom. Until I read the text and really seen the pictures good.

When I asked her who the author was she told me. " 'It's called Mommy Laid an Egg by Babette Cole' and I'm sitting here thinking it will be just a cute book t read. The parents are telling the kids where babies come from. They are telling them kid related answers (like that dinosaurs deliver babies like the mailman.). And the the kids say that's nonsense and they teach the parents! Children's book OMG"  I have to agree with her.
It's one thing to talk around the subject of how mommies and daddies have babies. But to be telling a Preschooler that his thing goes inside of mommy is WAY too graphic. Might as well give the kid a porno magazine or let them read a graphic romance novel!

"It was way too specific for kids. I found it in the preschool section. It's not like it was in the 12 year old section. It was right beside of Mother Goose's nursery rhymes"

This is no place for a book of this nature! Kids need to be protected not shown how mommy and daddy have sex! I'm sorry if this blog offends the author, but as a mother of a very impressionable 9 year old daughter, the aunt of a 4 year old niece, 12 year old niece, several 8 year old nephews, and 5 year old nephew, I have to say this is way too much for these children to be looking at. Children should be enjoying being just that, children. Not be taught how mommy and daddy have sex!